My stepdad, Tom, recently suffered a sudden stroke that has completely changed his life. Tom has been in my life since I was just 4 years old, stepping in as a father figure to me and my brother when we needed it most. He didn’t have to—but he chose to—and that says everything about the kind of man he is.

Tom spent years working in sales, helping my mom provide for us. About 16 years ago, he moved back to New York, where he’s from, to be closer to his dad who was ill, his oldest son and his grandkids.

If you know Tom, you know he loves being out on the golf course and cheering on his favorite team, the Buffalo Bills. He’s the kind of man who enjoys the simple things—good company, sports, a good steak and a tasty beer.

Right now, Tom is facing a long road to recovery. He needs ongoing medical care, rehabilitation, and daily assistance. The cost of his medical bills and hiring a caregiver has become overwhelming for him as he relies only on social security right now, and we want to make sure he gets the care, comfort, and dignity he deserves.

Any donation, no matter the size, will go directly toward his medical expenses and caregiving support. If you’re unable to donate, sharing this page would mean just as much to us.

Thank you for your kindness, support, and prayers.