Support Thorne After Tragic Loss of Cainan

I’m hoping that this reaches a strong network. A network that reads this bio, understands its purpose, and why I have been motivated to write it. For those, hopefully many, reading this right now, my name is Nathan Bertrand. I’ve known Thorne since 1994 when he moved to Medford OR. We are high school best buds that put in the effort to maintain our friendship and consider each other family, as does our own families towards each of us. As long as I can recall, Thorne has wanted to be a Dad. A Super Dad. And to none of our surprise, he did that and then some. After divorce and losing a custody battle to keep the boys close to both parents, he moved from Denver CO to rural western Tennessee. Willing to leave every comfort to an unknown, just to remain close to his sons and set the example for them to follow. We have spoken many times since he made the move. I have heard many times about the tolerant and or benevolent behaviors he has at these times. I’m not sure if I would be able to do the same. He always assures me that he won’t, he must show the boys how to be better than that and not lower himself to their level. I commend him in many ways. He champions being a father. He is a great father. One of, if not the best Father I have ever known. That’s why it breaks my heart to be motivated to write this to you now.

Recently, while his sons were in their mother’s care, his youngest son, eight-year-old baby boy, Cainan “Bear” Thorne, died from a reported asthma attack. Cainan was an energetic, positive, considerate, giving, competitive, and beloved 8-year-old boy whose spirit touched the lives of most that crossed his path. A natural athlete, Cainan played basketball, soccer, football, and baseball. I would always ask him if he had a favorite yet. He would quickly reply to hard to decide, I love them all. No matter on or off the field or court he was the best teammate, encouraging with his positivity and enthusiasm. He was a wonderful friend always ready with a smile, a laugh, or a kind word. He was courageous. His boundless energy and his heart full of kindness, always making others around him feel included and valued. Cainan’s bright light will be deeply missed by all who knew him. Though his time with us was far too short, his love, laughter, and unforgettable spirit will live on in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him. Cainan was Thornes mini-me to a “T”. Rest in peace, sweet Cainan Thorne. You will always be our MVP.

To help Thorne and his boys through this unimaginable tragedy, please consider making a donation for anything they may need in the coming weeks. Being a great single father is commendable. Seeing a father that has done everything in his power to just be present and consistent for his sons is a rarity and deserves to be recognized and supported. The hospital bills, helicopter emergency flight, travel, stress, down time, and the time it takes to gather yourself and go back to work, are all worthy of us supporting and donating to help fund a truly worthy family. Thorne is alone in Tennessee. Only getting to see his sons every other weekend, when he moved just 9 miles away from them to be a constant in their lives. I thank you for reading this. I thank you for sharing this with any and all your networks. If you are able to, I thank you repeatedly for donating. My eyes teared writing this. I have cried many times for my brother’s loss. Im sorry my family. We love and miss you Cainan Bear.