With a very heavy heart, I’m sharing an update about Thomas — our Kali Boi, our “Boi.”

After fighting incredibly hard against cancer, Boi is now in hospice and in the final days of his journey. Right now, our focus is simply being with him, surrounding him with love, comfort, and the people who mean the most to him.

If you know Boi, you know exactly the kind of person he is. Fun-loving, loyal to the core, and someone who would go out of his way for anyone. He’s the guy who loved to cook, loved to feed people, and loved bringing everyone together. Being surrounded by friends, family, laughter, and good food was always his thing.

Most importantly, Boi is a loving father to three incredible kids, a devoted son, and a friend that so many people have been lucky to have in their lives.

As our family prepares for the difficult days ahead, we’ve started a GoFundMe to help with funeral and memorial expenses so we can give Boi the farewell he deserves. If there are any remaining funds, they will go toward helping support the three kids he loves so deeply.

If you’re able to donate or even just share this, our family would be incredibly grateful. Every bit of support means more than you know right now.

Thank you for loving Boi and keeping him and his kids in your thoughts.