To Our Community, Friends, and Supporters,

My name is Reagann, and I’m writing today not just as a mother, but as a woman who has been forced to start over under heartbreaking and unexpected circumstances. This is not something I ever thought I would have to do—ask for help publicly—but recent events have put me in a position where I need support as I navigate an incredibly difficult transition for myself and my children.

Just days ago, my children and I were forced to leave our home after a conflict with my husband that escalated far beyond anything I could have imagined. On the day of our son’s first birthday, instead of celebrating together, my husband packed up our home and personal belongings with the help of a friend—who was also residing in our home at the time.

When I returned the following day, I found everything in our home altered—our dishes replaced, our furniture rearranged, and many of my children’s and my belongings boxed up. As I tried to continue packing the rest of our things, the sheriff’s department was called. They allowed me to remain and continue gathering what I could. But shortly after they left, three more deputies arrived and served me with a protection order—giving me just ten minutes to take only the most basic necessities for my children and myself. We left behind clothing, documentation, personal effects, and ultimately, our home.

I want to be clear: I am not an abuser. I have never used physical violence against my husband. The protection order was obtained based on a brief video clip of an emotional exchange—one that does not reflect the full picture of our relationship. Like many women in situations of prolonged stress and fear, I have reacted emotionally during intense moments. But reactivity is not abuse, and that distinction matters.

Behind closed doors, I have experienced threats and intimidation—things I was too afraid to report. My husband has made threatening remarks to me in the past that were especially terrifying given his military background. I remained silent because I was scared, isolated, and lacked support. I did not feel safe turning to law enforcement at the time. Like so many others, I believed things would improve, and I returned home after a previous separation earlier this year when he promised things would change. And they did—but only temporarily, until the cycle began again.

I also know now that I am not the first person who has lived through this. That truth is incredibly difficult to admit, but it has given me clarity. I have a responsibility to my children—and to myself—not to return to silence, not to repeat this cycle, and not to allow fear to determine the course of our lives.

As of now, I am barred from returning to the home I legally co-own. I have no access to the belongings I purchased or to our financial resources. My husband emptied our joint account prior to this situation, transferring all funds to a third party, leaving my two young children and me with only $30.

While I am relieved to say that we have safely relocated, we are starting over from the ground up. I am actively seeking safe, affordable childcare so I can return to work and pursue legal remedies for custody, property access, and long-term safety. At the same time, I am doing everything in my power to maintain stability for my children and help us begin the process of healing.

This is not just a legal battle—it is a fight to reclaim our peace, our safety, and our future.

That is why I am asking, with humility and gratitude, for help.

If you’re able to donate, share, or support us in any way, your kindness would mean more than I could ever put into words.

Every single dollar raised will be used to directly support my children with:

• Clothing

• School supplies

• Formula and diapers

• Basic hygiene and living essentials

Until I can find reliable childcare and resume full-time employment.

I never wanted this to be our story—but I am determined it won’t be the end of it.

Thank you for reading, for listening, and for standing with us.

With love and resilience,

Reagann

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Legal Disclaimer:

This is my personal account of events and is shared truthfully and in good faith. Any references to individuals are based on my direct experience and are not intended to defame, harass, or cause harm. This post is for the purpose of seeking support and raising awareness about domestic violence and financial abuse.