Hi

My name is Skai. I’m a non-binary, trans, mixed-race, Black and Brown transracial adoptee.

Beyond those labels, I’m a person who loves to rollerskate, make music, help others, be goofy and have a positive outlook on life even during hard times.

I began living in more of my truth as a trans person, in my 20’s when I changed my name to one that felt right for me. My grandmother helped me choose my new name by letting me try new ones with her. I landed on Skai :)

Shortly after that I bought a greyhound ticket to san francisco to go and try to make a life for myself and start hormones. It wasn’t until about 11 years later that I actually began my shift in hormones.

With the support of my partner of 8+ years and friends, I felt safe enough to physically transition. During that time I was so happy, nervous, worried… worried I would lose my singing voice…. nervous about how my co-workers would react etc. I also developed severe acne and acne scars to the point that I could see the shock in peoples faces as they tried politely pretend they saw nothing and…my partner couldn’t kiss my face for over a year. To this day I still worry about anything or anyone touching my face. You wouldnt believe me if you saw my face now. Still, I was happier in general and hopeful.

I wish I had started my physical transition in my 20’s like I planned but in this case, late was better than never.

All of this is to say… I am as ready as I can be for top surgery. Binding for 10+ hours per day is no longer mentally or physically viable for me. I have been without insurance for over a year and will soon be getting it through my new job. With that being said, I will still need help with recovery and any portion that covered by insurance and… truth me told, I’d rather go to a specific surgeon that I already have picked out. The surgery will be between $14,000.00-$16,0000.00. If I could raise that amount, what I would feel would be beyond words.

I want my scars to remind me of the love and care if those who contribute/contributed to my top surgery fund. I want to one day give back to others needing the same help that I’m asking for.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and for donating any amount that is on your heart or that you can afford.