My 2 Living Miracles, Kirsten & my first born daughter Aria

my names is Justin Harvey and my fiancée Kirsten knight we’re expecting our baby to be born around april 1st, on Monday February 3rd Kirsten’s spleen ruptured unexpectedly and 911 was called. They rushed her to the hospital and had to do an immediate C-sections to save Aria Annette Harvey due to the fluid found inside of Kirsten which was blood. I thought everything was going to be ok until I received calls about making life changing decisions and was told she had an artery rupture. She bled out out twice put into an induced coma with her her abdominal left open from her breast down to her groin. On February 5th they asked if they could perform a 3rd surgery to explore and see if they could find any other problems before closing her incision up. Aria is on a c pap for breathing and remains in the NICU and Kirsten remains in the surgical ICU. Me had her have been going through a lot for our kids mentally and financially. I have been missing a lot of work trying to be there for Kirsten , aria, Lucas and Sophie but I cannot do it alone and need any help we can get. With Kirsten growing up in foster care the hospital saying since we are not technically married if something is the happen to Kirsten my daughter would go to the state until confirming by DNA that she is mine. We have no date for either Kirsten or aria on when they will be coming home.