Growing up as an only child in a conservative, traditional household, I faced strict expectations and discipline that left little room for self-discovery. My journey was marked by emotional, mental, physical, and financial abuse, which made it difficult to embrace my true identity. Even as a drag artist, where my femininity was celebrated on stage, I felt pressure to present a masculine front in my daily life. It wasn’t until I met my current partner that I finally felt safe enough to honor the side of myself I had denied for so long.

Facial feminization surgery is a crucial step for me as a trans woman. It brings me closer to the body I envision for myself and offers relief from the dysmorphia I feel when I see my male features in the mirror. This surgery is not just about appearance—it’s about honoring myself and the divine feminine within me. I hope it will allow me to live authentically as the woman I have always known myself to be. I also see this step as an act of resistance against oppression, embodying freedom, love, and compassion for myself and others.

Financially, the journey is challenging. My current medical provider plan leaves me responsible for most of the surgery, medication, hospital, and post-operation fees. I am reaching out for help, whether through donations or by volunteering time to assist with daily tasks during my recovery. My partner has been my biggest supporter, though their work commitments may limit their availability. My sisters—Mya, Kiki, Tsu, and Mar—along with the queer communities of Sacramento, the Bay Area, Central Valley, and beyond, have provided invaluable love and friendship. Your support, in any form, will help me take this important step toward living as my true self.

Donated funds will be used for surgical costs, admin fees, aftercare equipment/supplies, and post op appointments. If there are any funds left over from deducting the overhead costs, the remaining amounts will be distributed to a trans lead organization/non profit of my choosing!