In March of 2022 I was rear ended by a person texting while driving while I sat stopped at a stop light. That left me with multiple injuries I will have to deal with for the rest of my life. Worst being my knees as the impact from the wreck tore my meniscus in both knees and knocked my left patella out of socket and fractured it.
In early October 2025 I once again was involved in another automobile accident. A driver failed to yield making a left hand turn and I T-Boned them. That impact pushed my dashboard and transmission into the cab of the vehicle and one again I ended up re injuring an already injured body part.
On 10/30/2025 I had an appointment with orthopedic surgeon Dr. Ronald Hood that said after initial evaluation he determined I at very minimum have a contusion that went to the bone on both knees and ordered me off my feet till I can get an MRI and he can see what is going on. I was sent from Dr's office to work with a note stating he was putting me on leave and requested my employer file FMLA on my behalf. I gave the note to my employer and was told "they did not have to honor that" and I was let go from my job on the spot.
I had been struggling with domestic violence from someone I was in a relationship with and have known this person most all my life. He is an alcoholic and it has ruined his mind. This past weekend I guess he told his sister some sob story about how he is right and I'm wrong (I dont know what was said but thats my assumption) and they both conspired to send me certified mail an eviction notice cause he and I had been living together in his home.
I dont deserve none of what is happening to me right now but with the kind heart of a friend she has offered to let me stay in her guest house as she too is one of the government employees not being paid right now, to help each other out.
With that being said, I am supposed to start a part time job at Buffalo Wild Wings 11/7/25 but I am limited to what I can do and push myself physically at the moment and maybe even the rest of my life.
I have until 12/3/25 to move but I financially can not do it due to no income and physical limitations.
I have never been in this situation before and it has gotten me to a point I've considered suicide. I have little family and my son is in the Navy stationed in California. So with that being said here I am doing the one thing I despise for myself personally. I am asking for help to pay a few months rent to my friend and to get the electric turned on and maybe pay that too for a few months so my body can heal... not only just physically from the auto accidents, but mentally so I can try to move forward from the abuse I've endured from an alcoholic I thought could love me enough to change.
Anything is appreciated.
Thank you.