Support Erin and Fiancé After Heartbreaking Loss

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Hello my Fiancé Fred and I are making this go fund me in the hopes our friends and family may be able to help ease this troubling heartbreaking time we are currently going through. A year ago 11.11.2024 we lost our son Abel to pre term labor due to an incompetent cervix where I was unable to get a cerclage because he was T-21 +. We were lucky enough to get pregnant again and this time with twins!!! A boy, Levi. And a girl, Harper. We took all the proper measurements and made sure we did everything right including 2 cerclages but unfortunately lasy Monday 10.27 at 21
weeks my water broke. We rushed to stony brook hospital where it was confirmed Levi's sac had ruptured and we had the optipn
to stay admitted in the hospital to try and make it a few more weeks until they were able to get steroids and medications they needed to have a stronger chance at survival. Om Halloween night Levi's umbilical cord came out of me .the following day they found he had no heartbeat due to basically suffocating from
The cord not being inside my body . All while little Harper was doing very well kicking and wiggling around. ( they were in two different sacs and had their own placentas) we had high hopes they would
be able to save Harper but when they went to remove my stitches I had developed an infection and was rushed to the OR where we unfortunately lost both of our babies ...again. And really to no fault of our own.
I havw been in the hospital since Monday the 27th and now have a serious infection in my uterus. We also are dealing with the mounting medical bills for myself and the babies as well as having to make the proper arrangements for the twins and a send off where we could collect their ashes to have with us forever.
this is truly another devastating blow to us we were not prepared for especially after losing Abel not even a year ago. I am still not fully recovered from tjat, but yet I know god has my son and daughter ans they are with their brother watching over their mommy and daddy until we get to be re-united again one day. Mommy and daddy will love all 3 of our angel babies forever .
if there is anything that anybody can find in their hearts to help us get through these times and mounting bills ans to be able to lay our sweet babies to rest it would mean more to us than anyone would ever even begin to understand .
thank you for taking the time to read this and again we greatly appreciate anythint anybody could help us with.
God Bless.

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Erin Fogarty
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Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
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