My little family is in crisis right now. My 17-year-old son Zeke, who has Down syndrome and Autism, is experiencing a sudden onset of difficult behaviors and possible medical issues. We suspect he may have a thyroid problem, but he refuses blood work, making it hard to get answers. Along with sudden aggression toward me, his mother, Zeke is also experiencing severe abnormal daily fatigue, which points even more to possible thyroid issues. The aggression that comes on quickly and suddenly has made it unsafe for me to be alone with him at home (which is leading to constant fear and anxiety for me ), or to travel in the car and in the community. It is looking very likely that my only option is to accept group home placement when space becomes available if by that time we haven’t gotten in home support or his medical needs dialed in. This is shattering my heart and making me feel physically ill to think of that.

We are currently working with a psychiatrist to trial different medications, but so far, nothing has helped. We are also working with local agencies, the regional center, county mental health, and the school to get supportive resources, but everything is a long process—sometimes taking weeks or months. I have very few people who can safely watch Zeke, so it’s difficult for me to complete paperwork, get to appointments, or even go to work. Zeke no longer attends school, so I am home with him constantly. I’ve had to miss work when he has a meltdown crisis, and I am terrified we won’t make rent this month. The anxiety around his well-being, my physical safety, and our financial situation is overwhelming.

I would be so grateful for a little financial support to get us through this devastatingly difficult and scary time. I never saw this coming, and I am deeply concerned for my child’s health, happiness, and future. Whatever anyone can contribute will be received with such gratitude. Thank you from the very bottom of my heart for helping us get through this. I’m reaching out for support in every way I can right now because we desperately need it.