11/8 Update from Vanessa’s mom: For six days, we prayed, cried out to God, and believed with everything in us that our beautiful Vanessa would wake up. Thousands of you stood beside us, believing for a miracle. On November 6th, at 4 PM, after extensive testing, our beautiful daughter was declared brain dead. There are no words to describe the heartbreak of a mother who prayed so desperately for God to heal her baby. But I want to share the miracle that came, just not the one we had prayed for. Vanessa made the selfless decision to be an organ donor. Despite everything her body endured, her beautiful heart is healthy and strong. The donor team has found recipients for her heart, pancreas, kidneys, and liver. Somewhere, families have been praying for a miracle, begging God for more time with someone they love. And because of my daughter, those prayers are being answered. My Vanessa had a heart of gold, and now that beautiful heart will continue beating in someone else's chest. I believe Vanessa has one more job to do here on earth, to give the gift of life. Tomorrow, we anticipate an Honor Walk as she is taken to surgery, where she will be honored as the hero she truly is. And when her work here is finished, I believe she will be welcomed into the arms of Jesus and reunited with her beloved Greg. Our hearts are shattered. I cannot understand why we have lost them both or why precious Austin must grow up without his mommy and daddy. But we are holding tightly to our faith. Vanessa wasn't just my daughter, she was my best friend. I am so incredibly proud to be her mother and proud of the lives she will save. Thank you to everyone who has prayed, called, texted, and surrounded our family with love. We are beyond grateful. Please understand that I also need some space to grieve. I love your messages, and if I need anything, I promise I will ask. Please continue praying for Vanessa's sister and brother, Austin, Greg's parents Shonda and Joe, Richard, Vanessa's father Mike and his wife Stacy, and our entire family. For six days, we prayed that Vanessa's heart would keep beating. And because of her beautiful decision, it will. Just not in the way we imagined. Somewhere, someone is about to receive the miracle we prayed so desperately for. I love you forever, my beautiful Vanessa. Mommy is so proud of you.

On 10/31 around 2:30am, Greg and Vanessa Tobias were in a tragic car accident between Vacaville and Fairfield. Greg passed away at the scene, and Vanessa was transported to Kaiser Vacaville. Vanessa remains in critical condition.

Greg was a loving and caring husband, father, son, brother, and friend. It is difficult to find the words to express the pain of losing him so suddenly and tragically. Most importantly, he leaves behind so many friends and family who loved him deeply and who will carry his love with them every day. May he rest in peace.

There are simply no words to describe the pain and uncertainty the Tobias and Estebez families are facing. Austin, Greg and Vanessa's only child, is now facing a future without his father, while his mother continues the fight of her life.

Vanessa has a long road ahead with so many questions still unanswered. We are asking our family, friends, and community to come together and surround her and Austin with love, prayers, and support during this devastating time.

In a single moment, Austin lost his father and Vanessa began the fight of her life. Your generosity can give them one less thing to worry about. Donations will go toward Vanessa’s medical bills and rehabilitation, Greg’s funeral expenses, and the everyday needs of a mother and son rebuilding their lives. Every contribution brings comfort, and every share helps this family’s story reach someone who can help.

Let's come together to show this family that they are not alone. Let's help give their little boy and his mother the support, love, and stability they desperately need during this heartbreaking time.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your kindness, generosity, prayers, and love.

This fundraiser is organized and managed by Charlize Estebez, Vanessa’s sister. Charlize will manage donations and ensure all funds are used for funeral costs and to support Austin, the son of the couple.