Our hearts are shattered as we grieve the sudden and unexpected loss of our sweet, beautiful oldest sister.

She was the firstborn of nine children—six sisters and three brothers—and she carried that role with love, strength, and an unmistakable presence. She was the kind of sister who made everyone feel seen, the kind who brought laughter into a room just by being there. She loved singing karaoke, loved being surrounded by family, and loved deeply in a way that leaves a permanent imprint on everyone she touched.

She was also a devoted mother to two incredible boys. They have lost their mom—their source of comfort, guidance, and unconditional love—and their world has been changed forever.

Our mother is grieving the unimaginable loss of her firstborn child. All eight of us siblings are grieving the loss of our sister, our anchor, and our friend. Her fiancé is grieving the loss of his partner and the future they were building together. Her sons’ father is grieving the loss of a longtime friend and the mother of his children. Friends, extended family, and so many others are grieving alongside us.

This loss has come suddenly, leaving emotional devastation and unexpected financial burdens. We are raising funds to help cover funeral and memorial expenses and to support her sons during this incredibly difficult time, ensuring they are cared for as they begin life without their mother.

If you are able to donate, share, or simply keep our family in your thoughts and prayers, it means more than words can express. We are holding onto one another, leaning on love, and honoring her life the best way we know how.

Thank you for standing with us during this heartbreaking time.