In September 2025, our world changed when Sheri was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s at just 55 years old. Sheri is still here—still herself, still laughing with us, and still present in so many ways. We’re living in the space where both things are true: we still share normal moments, but we’re also seeing the changes—memory lapses, searching for words, increasing fatigue, and subtle shifts in her daily rhythm. We’re doing everything we can to stay ahead of this. Sheri is under the care of specialists at the University of Vermont Medical Center, using a Rivastigmine patch and beginning Leqembi infusions to slow the progression of the disease. We’re building routines and structure to help her stay engaged, supported, and safe.

These health challenges have changed our world in ways we couldn’t have planned for. Sheri is no longer able to work. While long-term disability has helped, our household income has dropped significantly. At the same time, medical care costs have gone up and our health insurance premiums are now several times higher than they were just a year ago.

We’ve used savings, adjusted spending, and taken careful withdrawals from retirement funds to stay current on our bills and obligations. But the gap between income and expenses is real—and it’s not going away on its own. I need to be home more to support Sheri as this progresses. Being present with her isn’t something I can replace or postpone. Our daughter, Phoebe, is about to turn 18 and will be starting college at the University of Vermont, where she plans to pursue nursing. She’s stepping into this next chapter of her life while also navigating the reality of her mom’s diagnosis.

More than anything, we’re trying to hold onto stability for our family. We’ve lived in our home for over 20 years. It’s where Sheri and I have built our life together, and where so many of our family’s memories live. For Phoebe, it’s the place she’s always known as home. For Sheri, it’s something even more important—familiar, grounding, and filled with the life we’ve shared. Holding onto that stability matters deeply to us.

We’re sharing this because we want to stay ahead of our situation, not fall behind it. We’re not looking for long-term support. Our goal is to create stability during this stretch—while expenses are high and income is reduced—until Sheri becomes eligible for Medicare and our healthcare premiums can be reduced. If you feel comfortable contributing, your support will go directly toward mortgage payments, essential household expenses, medical care and treatments, health insurance premiums, and ongoing care needs. If you’re not in a position to give, we completely understand. Sharing this page or simply keeping us in your thoughts means more than you know. Right now, we’re focused on staying steady, protecting as much normalcy as we can, and making the most of our time together as a family. Thank you for being part of our lives, and for any support you’re able to give.