Support for Jeanette during this time of grief

Hi, I’m Sara. My father passed last Thursday and it’s broken our family’s heart. He was a father of 4 a step- father of 5, a grandfather of 16, and a great-grandfather of 3. He was also a beloved husband to my stepmother, Jeanette. They just celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary. They called each other “Dear” all the time and it was adorable. “Thank you, Dear” and “yes, Dear” were readily heard around the house. He often said “whatever you want, Dear” and in this spirit, we would like to assist our mother and stepmom during this time of grief and change. We would like to give her a few months to catch her breath and not worry about her day-to-day expenses. Jeanette has taken care of all our many family members for years, so any reprieve we , and others, can help offer would be much appreciated.