Carrie, my girlfriend, is facing one of the hardest moments of her life. I've never done a fundraiser and dont know hot to really do this. BUt I really want to help her. Her and her mother have experienced an enormous loss. Mom is 69 and was married to Dad for 38 years. After Carries Fathers passing it was so so hurtful and heart wrenching. He passed away at the house sitting at his desk. Cause of death is still awaiting confirmation from the coroners. The day after his passing Carrie was overwhelmed with even more grief and worry, unsure how she could afford even the most basic funeral services. Carrie works as a crossing guard and seasonally for elections, scraping by each month and carefully budgeting every dollar. When I heard her mention that she might have to scrape up all the money in the house or even take out a loan just to cover cremation costs, it broke my heart. I also struggle financially, working a commission-based job that's been slow lately, so I can't help much myself.

Carrie would never think of starting a fundraiser—she's the kind of person who never asks for help, despite everything she's been through. This support would not only help her in this tough time, but also show her that people care and are willing to help. I was present when we found out her dad had stopped breathing, and seeing her perform CPR while crying and screaming broke my heart. I wish I could've helped more, so this fundraiser is my way of trying to support her.

Any help you can give will go directly to funeral costs and other important immediate expenses. Your support means the world to Carrie and her family, and it would be a perfect opportunity for her to know that there are people who care and are willing to help as long as she asks.