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Support Bethany's Fight Against Stage IV Cancer

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Support Bethany Wildes in Her Fight Against Stage IV Breast Cancer

Bethany Wildes, at just 42 years old, is facing the fight of her life.

She is not only an extraordinary individual — Bethany is an accomplished violin professor and performer who many of us have come to know and love as our collective mother — a mentor, a guide, and a nurturing presence who has touched countless lives through her compassion, wisdom, and music.

Now, Bethany is courageously battling Stage IV metastatic breast cancer, which has spread to her liver, abdomen, and spine. One of the most serious complications she now faces is malignant pleural effusion (MPE) — a condition where cancer causes fluid to build up between the chest wall and the lungs, leading to constant pressure, low oxygen levels, and severe shortness of breath.

To relieve this condition, doctors recently placed PleurX catheters, allowing Bethany to drain the fluid at home and breathe with more ease. While this brings some relief, it also carries a high risk of infection and requires frequent follow-ups, medical supplies, supervision, and in-home care.

Her best chance of survival lies in receiving advanced treatment at the renowned MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, Texas — but sadly, her insurance does not cover care at this facility.

Bethany is no longer able to work, and the financial burden has become overwhelming. We anticipate that her treatment will take two years. While every contribution large or small is highly appreciated, recurring monthly donations will have the greatest impact in helping her pay for the treatment.

Your donation will help cover:
• Estrogen suppression therapy
• Oral chemotherapy treatments
• Pain management
• Strengthening supplements
• Supplies for at-home pleural drainage
• In-home nursing and breathing assistance
• Transportation to medical appointments
• Help with basic living expenses to relieve financial stress
• Multiple tumor removal surgeries

Bethany has given so much of herself to others — now it’s our turn to give back. Every donation, message, and share will help ease her path forward, surround her with love, and ensure she feels the support of the community she has uplifted for so many years.

All donations go directly to Bethany's checking bank account. I serve only as the organizer and curator of this relief effort for our dear friend.

Thank you for all your help!!!
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    Organizer and beneficiary

    Dan Totan
    Organizer
    Dallas, TX
    Bethany Wildes
    Beneficiary

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