I am creating this GoFundMe on behalf of my friend Ashwini Madhu, whose family is going through an unimaginable heartbreak. Her husband is battling mouth cancer and is currently in hospice care, surrounded by loved ones as they face the most painful chapter of their lives.

Ashwini has been incredibly strong, caring for her husband around the clock while also raising their 3-year-old child. But emotionally, this journey has taken a devastating toll. The rapid progression of the illness and the responsibilities of supporting various duties have left her overwhelmed.

I am asking for help to support Ashwini during this heartbreaking time.

Funds will go toward:

Hospice and medical care

Critical financial support

Any immediate needs that arise during this crisis

Madhu was young and energetic, who was full of life. Today his wife Ashwini needs the strength of her community.

Any amount—small or large—will make a meaningful difference in giving this family stability, comfort, and dignity in these final moments together. If you cannot donate, please share this fundraiser so it can reach others who may be able to help.

Thank you for your kindness, compassion, and prayers. Your support means more than you can imagine.

Madhu’s Cancer Journey

Earlier this year, we were simply a happy couple raising our toddler. Everything changed in April when Madhu was diagnosed with stage 2 cancer squamous cell carcinoma, with a

tumor on the underside of his tongue. In May 2025, the tumor and a few lymph nodes (one

malignant) were successfully removed at Community Health Network–North, Indianapolis.

Following medical advice, he began radiation therapy seven weeks after surgery. Almost

immediately, severe systemic reactions set in

extreme vomiting and dehydration yet

he pushed through eight of the 30 recommended sessions. Unfortunately, follow-up scans revealed a large tumor still present in his tongue and several malignant lymph nodes.

In August 2025, he underwent another major surgery: removal of the right half of his

tongue, multiple lymph nodes, and a flap reconstruction. Just three weeks later, a CT scan

confirmed our worst fear the cancer had spread to his lungs, advancing to metastatic

stage 4.

Determined to fight, he started chemotherapy combined with immunotherapy in September

2025. After two cycles, there was no significant progress; the tumor continued to grow. In

October, he received a “quad shot” of radiation to slow the disease’s aggression. It helped

briefly but came with harsh side effects.

We then enrolled him in a clinical trial at IU, Indianapolis, hoping for a breakthrough. Sadly,

he was randomized into the standard care group and received one dose in November. Soon after, he was hospitalized for severe chest congestion and breathlessness the third

emergency in just two weeks. After enduring 12 hospitalizations, 2 major surgeries, 3 minor ones, 12 radiation sessions, 3 cycles of chemotherapy, and innumerable ER visits, his condition became critical. Through

every setback, Madhu has fought with extraordinary courage and an unyielding will to live. Madhu took his last breath on 23rd Nov 2025 late evening. He went away peacefully,

surrounded by loved ones.

His humor truly uplifted every situation and his resilience is truly inspiring. Atharva and I

continue to carry that spirit and hope to live a fulfilling zealous life spreading the

unconditional love he shared for everyone in his life. - Ashwini Madhu