Support a Trans Dad’s Top Surgery Journey

Help My Fiancé Get the Top Surgery He Deserves

Hi everyone,

My name is Bailey, and I’m reaching out on behalf of my incredible fiancé, Jordan. He is a transgender man who has been bravely and beautifully living his truth. After a long journey of self-discovery, courage, and love, he’s finally scheduled to receive gender-affirming top surgery in just 6 days—a procedure that will significantly improve his mental health, confidence, and quality of life.

This surgery is something he’s dreamed of for years, and we truly believed we were ready. But just this week, we received the devastating news that we need to pay $3,000 upfront before the surgery can happen.

We’re a young family—raising a child together and doing our best to keep up with bills, groceries, and the endless costs of simply staying afloat. Like many families, we’re living paycheck to paycheck, and there’s just no way for us to come up with that kind of money in less than a week on our own.

We are asking for help—not because it’s easy, but because we believe in the kindness of our community, our friends, and even strangers who believe that everyone deserves to live in a body that feels like home.

Every single donation, no matter how small, brings us closer to making this life-changing surgery a reality. If you can’t donate, sharing this fundraiser means the world to us.

Thank you so much for your support, your love, and your belief in our little family. We are so grateful.

With love,

Bailey, my fiancé, and our little one