Sumner Feldman deserves quality end-of-life care

The last six weeks have been life-changing: out of the blue, our dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that has already metastasized to his liver and lungs. Daily, we are watching the impact this sudden, unexpected diagnosis is having on both him and our mom, and, though we are here with them ‘round the clock, we are no longer able to provide the amount and type of support he needs. If you know our parents, you know they are the kindest, most generous, most supportive, most loving people. If you know our parents, you know they would never give us permission to reach out to friends, family and the community in this manner. (If you know US, you know waiting for permission from them was not always our strongest suit…)

Dad has always been the calm in every storm, and now he is facing the most colossal storm of his life. We want nothing more than to help ease all the moments, and give our mom the gift of spending every moment that remains with her beloved husband of 56 years. The blessing of providing a full-time caregiver is a tremendous expense, and, sadly, one that neither of us is in a position to afford. So, with reluctance and extremely heavy and humbled hearts, here is the best answer we can give to the caring and common question: “How can we help?”

In Judaism, the number 18 means, "life," hence our hopeful goal. No pressure. No expectation. However you are able to assist in ensuring the end of his life has as much beauty, compassion, love and respect as the glorious years he’s lived – will be embraced and appreciated more than words can express.

At this time, we ask that you contact Diane or Amy with any questions: our parents are not ready for calls or visits. Your understanding is cherished.

With gratitude,

Diane and Amy