
Unexpected loss of my husband Clavar Aka Clavvy in Jamaica
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My name is Diana and my husband suffered from asthma since he was a baby! We have been doing long distance marriage for almost 2 years now and I come to Jamaica every month or 2 to spend time with him as our petition to bring him to the US is taking a while but we were close! He was so good to everyone he wasn’t a bad person to no one as he’d give anything he had to someone else. I spent years of my life with someone who abused me and then never thought of being with anyone till I became friends with Clavvy (my husband) and our friendship turned into a relationship so I took a shot at coming to Jamaica and meeting him and it was the best thing I ever did! I got royalty treatment and we loved each other so much! He was a night owl that loved his gaming and TikTok so he would stay on the phone with me all night when I was back home and always took time for me! He claimed my children as his own and looked forward to coming and we were trying to bring life as he had no children of his own! My whole life has been turned upside down! I prayed so hard for a good man and God gave me him as he knew we needed each other and now he’s gone! Sunday morning we were on the phone and he woke up gasping for air the inhaler didn’t help and he had no more nebs at home so he got to the hospital. Unfortunately here in Jamaica the health care system is not good and many people die daily as they don’t always have proper meds on hand or they don’t get enough training! I know he is in a better place not suffering but he was only 24 and was just starting to have the life he deserved! He was so smart and could do anything he put his mind to! I am in Jamaica till I can get the death certificate and have him cremated so I can bring him home but with me coming so often my funds are low. I’m a very independent person and if I was home I would make the money myself but I am here in JA and I am not leaving without him! I don’t want to feel like a beggar but please if there’s anything you can do I would appreciate it! I don’t know what else to say I’m just so broken-hearted rn! Service has not been done yet as we are still awaiting papers to be finalized so I’m not 100% sure on date but as many of you know I’m here in Jamaica with very little funds left as I’m not home to work and bring in any income so anything that is sent is paying for this process and to help me during this process! I’m very independent and don’t ask for anything as I feel if I want it I’ll work for it but unfortunately this is a time where my back is against the wall and all I can do is thank God and his family for keeping me safe
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Diana Shakes
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Redwood, NY