I’m sharing something personal—

Something I never imagined I’d have to ask for. Over a year ago, I left a verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusive marriage, hoping for peace and stability for myself and my children. But what followed has been a year-long battle marked by his legal delays, financial manipulation, and emotional abandonment of the kids and his responsibilities. He walked away from the mortgage back in May 2024, leaving me to cover everything on my own—housing, utilities, food, school costs, dogs costs, and the full weight of raising our kids. Asking me to sell my car, the only transportation I have to raise our children. Then, in December, after giving only about 20 days’ notice, he abruptly moved out of state—without a proper long distance parenting plan and without even saying goodbye to his children. Since then, he hasn’t contributed to the household, but is experiencing lavish trips, lavish dinners, and hiding money to avoid marital division. He’s missed child support, and continues to delay the divorce by ignoring court orders and misusing the legal process to avoid accountability and further abuse me with what’s known as post separation abuse and coercive control.  He left me not only with the kids, but also with two large dogs (over 100 pounds) and every single responsibility. I’ve held everything together as best I can—but after a year of doing this completely alone, I’m exhausted. The emotional toll on our children, and the financial pressure on me, have been immense. And he continues his abusive ways through the parenting app.

 I’ve created a GoFundMe to help cover: • Legal fees to finalize the divorce and enforce orders • Therapy and trauma support for me and the kids • Housing security and recovery expenses • Emergency costs I’ve carried alone since last year If you’re able to donate or even just share the link, I’d be deeply grateful. Your support reminds me I’m not alone—and shows my kids that we’re seen, supported, and worth fighting for.