Stand with Domonique Against Abuse

Hello,

My name is Domonique Lytle and I'm creating this go fund account for my children and I. I'm in need of help currently and I have been struggling to do it all by myself. I'm currently married and have been in this relationship for 19 years now. In July of 2022, I found out about my husband's affair. Since then,y life has been literally flipped upside down. After finding out what he had done, I started to look at old phones, laptops, computers, accounts, etc. I started to uncover a lot of things that he had been doing behind my back and in secret for a very long time. Possibly since we had Cameron in 2007. I soon started to realize that my husband was lying about everything that I had seen. Till this day he refuses to accept that I have exposed his deepest dark secrets and one would like to believe that he would accept accountability. Unfortunately, he has not. This leads into the reasons why I am asking for help. I'll do my best to summarize my current situation. After the outing of the affair, I believed he was wanting to reconcile our marriage, but that's not what he really wanted. This man has a severe sex addiction and has gotten wrapped up with people I have no idea whom they are, but they have all been stalking me in person and on online. The more I would look into what he is doing online, the harder he has attacked my mental health. This man has been in a secret relationship with another person for a very long time. I'm not a tech savvy individual, but I have seen history in my accounts and my son's accounts to know that he has deliberately used our accounts to cover his activities. This man is emotionally and financially abusive towards me. He has been purposely manipulating me and gaslighting me to try and keep me in a state of mental confusion. In hopes that I would be so hopeless and take myself out permanently. He purposely uses my childhood traumatic events against me, to trigger a certain response that can be used against me. He is a retired police officer and knows how the law works. This is why I'm struggling to find a job currently. I have been to jail 4 times in the past four years, with the most recent one being this past October. I was in jail for almost a month. I now have a charge on my record which has put my RN licence in jeopardy. I had a job with HEB's favor runner. But him or the woman he's involved with, notified them to do a background check and I received an email from them stating they had to let me go. This man has also planted drugs in my car, in hopes I would get pulled over and arrested for having drugs in my possession while I had active bond conditions. He wouldn't pay for the registration to be renewed for my car, this was earlier this year. Now I'm on adult probation and I have financial obligations that I need for my probation requirements. He will not give me money. If he has given me money, it's to prove to everyone he loves to talk to about me. To make me appear like I'm a liar and making up the accusations of what I believe he is doing. He is a narcissistic master manipulative gaslighter. He won't stop attacking me unless I literally turn a blind eye on what he does in the dark and apologize for accusing him of doing everything that I have seen. He has tried to kick me out of our home numerous times, staying that he doesn't care where I go or what happens to me. I have nothing to fall back on, because I believed all the lies that he had told me. Then he slowly isolated me from everyone and everything that I have no choice but to either go to a homeless shelter or bow down to his bullying. Ever since 2 years ago when I literally felt the hands of God raise me up from the darkness I was in. I have been standing up to him and anyone else that sides with him. He is a manipulative, very intelligent man who can make anyone believe what he says. He also will go the extra mile as to downgrading his phone to make it believable and to make me sound like I'm crazy. I'm not crazy, it was court ordered that I was psych evaluated and I have been deemed sane by a professional. Now, this man is trying to say that I have an iodine deficiency and hence the reason why I'm acting mentally unstable. He continues to attack my mental health in hopes that he can detire the uncoverings of his secrets and put me in the spotlight. He will not stop attacking me and trying to destroy my life until one, I'm in prison or two, I'm 6ft under. This man is not the person I thought he was not is he the person everyone believes that he is. I don't feel safe living in the same house as him, but I don't want to leave my children behind either. This is why I'm asking for help financially. There's so much more to my current situation and I'm more than willing to share it with anyone who has questions. I'm simply trying to get myself and my children to a safer environment. He's trying to take my children away from me as well. I have had difficulty getting shelter because of the charges on my record now. I ask for anyone who is willing to help me out for assistance. I truly believe that God has a plan for me and my children. I just need to get out of the toxic, abusive environment I currently am in. If you can't donate, I ask if you can share my story with anyone. Thank you for your time and patience with me. I have complete faith in God's plan for me Thank you again and may God bless you all.