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Stand with Barnali: To save Home, Legal, Medical Aid
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My name is Barnali. Reaching out for support for my justice.
After, 17 years living in Georgia and being citizen of the United States since 2012.
I moved here after marriage, hoping to build a peaceful family and a stable life.
Instead, I spent many years in isolation, control, and fear — and today, I am fighting simply to survive and get Justice and also rebuild my life, Get back my both sweetest smartest Autistic kids restore their mental damage
And Our home where we had our safe corner, the pink room!.. trying to rebuild our broken dream together peace by peace. That got scattered.
For years, I was kept without access to basic independence :
- I was not allowed to have the house key, garage door opener or alarm code,
- I was told it’s dangerous outside. Even in a gated community.
More than that,
- I was not allowed to call or go see my parents for four years until giving birth of my first child.
- I was told by mother in law, it is expensive to go India and she was not able to go see her family until 4 years. it’s expensive even to call India when my uncle who was like my dad died.
- Not even allowed talk to neighbor.
- And I was forced to an IVF doctor for pregnancy without my consent.When I denied, As my life was threat everyday, got Humiliated in public once more and I was forced to be deported same day. Called police on me two times that same day.
- I was shivering on the side of the road alone in fear, with unstoppable tear from my eyes. And had no where to hide from that shame.
- Had to go in DV shelter.
- Not allowed to pursue my career or establish myself.
- Or have my family over that they can be supportive when in need.
- Not allowed to have my family visit me as promised before marriage. And it was very important, as I had to leave my birth country while in middle of Mumby blast in 2008.
- …my family suffered beside me, after my first child birth when first time my parent visited I saw my Dad who become looking like skeleton, his both eyes were about to come out of his eye socket when he smiled at me.
- They gone through humiliation such extant that they never dear to come my home. Like, my mother in-law searched their purse for lost key with out permission. Not taken to Doctor when fall and bleed in bathroom.
- Beat me in front of them while nursing newborn. etc.
- Not given the right to be allowed to breastfeed my first child or hold him first as birth mother.
- Many more heart breaking life threatening incidents followed after to my kids and me.
- And I was only trying to be ideal Hindu wife. Praying to lord. Working hard for keeping marriage, keeping home from breaking. for kids mental health, security. For Our value.
- … then this family ultimately planned nice…step by step and Succeed to Leave me no where to survive.
- They involved children in it.
- my children could not tolerate it, elder still today can’t walk like before, form toxic exposure to trauma.
- they twisted the truth with their money, lawyers.
- When they put me in jail, … I came out some how in Gods Grace.
- But…. World had changed for me, I had no where to go…. Lost my residence, my Kids no change of cloth, no one to pick me up or food… divorce was already given with big bill.
- No way I could save my evidence that was at my residence. From where I was lawfully kicked out.
- I found myself all alone in middle of mess. With nothing. In the waiting area of jail. My medical card… my bank card… my ID…
- With high paying attorney who had my power-of attorney to help me out in bond in most expensive way. Who only was Targeting rich in-law’s money source. abused my helpless situation as easy target.
- I had to put a stop in all that, legally to all that complicated situation. that I can fight back.
- in this point with out again hiring another lawyer and translators. I am no where.
… experiences left deep emotional and physical scars.
As Over time, I faced humiliation in public, constant accusations, and financial control. My marriage partner repeatedly prepared legal cases against me — including multiple false child-neglect charges — purely to gain advantage in custody and alimony matters. Both arrests were without warrants, and I was not allowed to speak to a lawyer at the time.
In the courtroom, instead of protection, I faced another layer of pain.
I hired multiple lawyers, and each one failed me. They only focused on my rich ex husbands money, not my needs and safety, and billed me more than $100k. Still bills are coming…
My lawyer, even Misused my power of attorney what I gave to bond me out.
Went to trial with out all documents that I had. helped Destroy my evidence. Did not complete discovery process. And I ended up in jail for false accusations during child custody battle.
Inside the jail, I experienced extremely painful conditions:
• I was given wrong medication or no medication,
• I was kept with TB patients,
• As a Hindu, I was denied access to Geeta or Hanuman Chalisa, but was given only a Bible, and cow meat.
• I was repeatedly sick but not treated properly.
Now my left side of body is troubling.
My primary physician later confirmed that my legal situation messed up, for negligence by lawyers I hired not due to lack of evidence.
None of the lawyer even bothered to go and collect evidence from her. my present physical and mental state is due to prolonged abuse and legal trauma — not because I did anything wrong.
Today, I have:
• No home,
• No alimony,
• No legal custody of my autistic children.
• Child support to pay, with no income
• And almost all marital money asset was hidden before the divorce was filed.
Me being in jail made it more complex.
My abuser is super smart,influential, rich in comunity.
I begged door to door for support, it’s not easy for anyone beside their life to help me read my huge amount of legal documents, or find a lawyer who they may know could take my case with out big retainer. Or support me in my complex situation.
Despite everything, I am determined to fight for justice. I want to rebuild my life, regain stability, and hopeful one day restore my relationship with my child. Who only got supported by me Medically mentally educationally socially religiously since Birth.
But right now, I am financially devastated, homeless, and struggling with medical issues potentially cancer caused by years of stress, neglect, and mistreatment.
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Why I am raising funds
I need help for:
• Legal representation to reopen my case and correct the injustice
.•NGO or legal aid DV shelter did not take complex case or guide for limited ability.
• Housing and basic living expenses.
• Medical treatment
• Trauma counseling, Therapy.
• Filing complaints regarding legal negligence and civil rights violations
Any support — financial or even sharing this link — means the world to me. I have fought alone for many years, but now I truly need help.
Thank you for reading my story and for standing with me A Defeated Mother during the most difficult time of my life.
— Barnali
i wish to thank you for all your blessings. So far test for cancer came negative