Stand by Ernie's Family After His Loss

I am Ernie's wife. We have been together for roughly 12 years, had lots of ups and downs, but at the end of the day, we loved each other unconditionally. My husband was found on the 4th of July, deceased along with his cousin. We are not sure what happened or why this happened, but it has taken a huge toll on our family. We have buried so many family members in the last 5 years: both Ernie's siblings, my mom and brother, his cousin and close friend, and now my husband. This is a huge loss for our family. He has been our provider and always took care of his family. He leaves behind me, his wife, and a 9-year-old daughter and 4 stepchildren, ages 23, 19, 15, and 14, his mother and father, as well as nieces and nephews. Ernie was a great soul and had a huge heart. He was a very loving person, and he would help anyone in any way possible. Ernie was taken from us too early. He just turned 41 in May.