Stage 4 colon cancer that has spread, “Help”

My name is Danna, and I have stage 4 colon cancer that has metastasized to my lymphnodes and both lungs, to begin with I had no idea what was causing my stomach and back pain, my doctor thought it was arthritis and diabetes so I took Tylenol and carried on until other symptoms that i couldn’t ignore began to happen, I had colon surgery on November 2nd 2021 and an 8 inch section of my colon was removed, I had a rough time of it but came out of the hospital 10 days later but after 3 days I was put back in for a hematoma that had developed, after a week I was back home. I saw an oncologist who told me that the cancer is also in my lymph nodes and both lungs and its stage 4, my lungs are inoperable and incurable with 3 years to live with Chemo and less than a year without Chemo so I chose Chemo with all its terrible side effects because I need more time with my husband and three sons and I’m just starting to get grandbabies, I’m trying to be positive but it feels like I’ve been stamped with an expiration date, I know that God is the only one who can say when, what hurts me the most is seeing my family hurting over me, I’m asking if you can help with any donation for hospital bills and other bills, I cant work now so it has really cut our income, thank you so much for reading my story, God bless you