As we began reaching out to friends of Spencer's to share the news of his untimely passing, the overwhelming question was, "how can we help?" On behalf of his mom and dad, Mern and Dan, his wife Carmen and their son Xavier we can think of no better support than covering the unexpected costs of his memorial service. The loss of Spencer in their lives is devastating in and of itself and the cost of the memorial to honor his life only serves as an additional burden. We want to make sure they can focus on the slow process of grieving and healing without the extra worry of the financial stress. We've been touched by the outpouring of love from friends who've shared their stories of Spence with us, all similar to ours, with one common theme - Spence was such a loving, sweet, caring guy. He stayed in touch with friends, he was always happy, always making us laugh. Any support that you can give will help ease the burden on his family. No donation is too small, it's about all of us, coming together as a community in love to lift up his spirit and share that love with his family. We will be finalizing plans for his services (and hopefully a drum circle) over the week-end and hope to have the location, date and time posted soon. Please post any pictures, stories, etc. to his Facebook wall as we love hearing from you. Thank you all for your love and support, in the words of Xpenceo - "Namastizzle"