This is very hard for me to ask for money. I have been married for 17 years have 3 children. I find myself in a bind. Even though I have insurance my deductible is $5,000 we are a normal family and dont have that kind of money set aside. Im short about $2,000. The hospital will not do the surgery unless i pay in advance. Im at a total loss of what to do. I dont really have family to help. Where to the point of not doing the surgery period. Total loss of what eles to do.