Our friend has unexpectedly found herself raising two young children alone, one of whom is severely disabled and needs 24/7 supervision and physical care. He is unable to feed or carry out any daily life skills, is non-verbal and unable to communicate.
She is currently looking for work and getting settled into a new apartment with the help of friends, and needs some extra support to get back on her feet after caring tirelessly and lovingly for her special needs son for over 8 years. We have currently applied for services and supports, but need help in the interim.
Separation and divorce is traumatic for all family members. However, children with autism can be particularly affected due to challenges with changes to routine, which is a characteristic of the disorder. Children with autism tend to prefer predictable and fixed routines, familiarity, and structure to their days. This tends to all go out the window when parents separate. It is important that the needs of the children are prioritized and that children on the spectrum are well supported to cope with the inevitable disruption to their lives.
All funds contributed will go toward her rent and utilities while she gets back on her feet. It will also go toward her 8 year old son's diapers and other specialty care items.
As a mother of a special needs child and sibling I can tell you it is extremely challenging yet rewarding. It really does take a toll on you physically, emotionally, and financially. It is harder to find childcare if not at times impossible.
I will personally vouch for the need. It is never easy asking or receiving help, but in time we know she will pay it forward. Please keep her and her children in your prayers.

