Securing a Better Future

My oldest son, Aaron, is facing significant challenges both at school and at home due to an unhealthy environment. He requires more individualized care and support than he is currently receiving. Recently diagnosed with ADHD, Aaron needs targeted treatment and therapy to help him get back on track. At present, he is developmentally behind, reading at a pre-kindergarten level, despite being in first grade.

For years, his mother has overlooked the recommendations of medical professionals, which has worsened his developmental delays. I have enrolled him in a PCIT research study in Charleston, South Carolina, starting in January 2025, which could help him address some of the developmental challenges he has faced. Additionally, I am in contact with Project Rex through MUSC Shawn Jenkins Children's Hospital, a program designed to support his social, emotional, and educational growth. In South Carolina, Aaron would have a quiet space to focus on his learning and development, along with the support system he desperately needs.

Moreover, in June of this year, Aaron disclosed that he has experienced ongoing abuse at home for the past three years. This report was made to the Vermont Department of Children and Families, leading to an investigation. After interviewing Aaron, the DCF investigator expressed concern about potential incidents at home and noted that his stepfather was uncooperative during the investigation. I am deeply worried about Aaron's safety and overall development in his current environment. Before returning to Vermont, Aaron expressed a desire to live with my wife and me in South Carolina, stating that he did not feel safe at home. Since then, my anxiety and distress have only intensified.

While I am actively seeking solutions for Aaron's well-being, I cannot proceed without obtaining sole custody. Unfortunately, I currently lack the financial resources to cover attorney and court fees. To help with these expenses, I have launched a GoFundMe campaign. I am scheduled to appear in court on November 26, 2024, to determine the next steps. I would greatly appreciate any support in securing a brighter future for my son.