Life comes at you fast- sometimes all at once.
It has taken me a lot of humility, vulnerability and courage to write this. Asking for help does not come naturally to me, but this year has pushed me to a place I never expected to be.
I’m raising funds to help my elderly mother, Magdalena, cover overdue HOA fees on her longtime home. She has lived there for over 13 years, has always been responsible…but the fees have increased quite a bit, while her income has not. We never imagined we’d be facing this kind of financial pressure in this season of her life. Medical bills, increasingly high basic monthly expenses, etc., so here we are.
In addition, this has been the hardest year of my life.
Multiple job opportunities I was counting on fell through at the last minute. The freelance work I’ve relied on for years slowed to almost nothing. At the same time, I’ve been caring for my mom as her only child, doing everything I can to keep us afloat while trying to stay hopeful and resilient.
The financial stress has been overwhelming. I’ve carried it quietly, pushing forward, believing something would break through. But the truth is, despite doing everything “right,” we fell behind- and the HOA balance has now reached a critical point.
My mom doesn’t live extravagantly. She doesn’t use the amenities or cause any issues. She is kind, gentle and deeply proud. This situation has been incredibly distressing for me, as I try not to tell her much, due to aging and cognitive decline.
Every dollar raised will go directly toward resolving the HOA balance so my mom can remain secure in her home and we can move forward without the constant fear of losing stability.
I believe deeply in paying it forward. I’ve spent my career telling other people’s stories, helping causes, mentoring and giving when I could. When I’m back on my feet- and I will be- I promise to extend the same kindness and generosity that others show us now.
If you’re able to donate, even a small amount, please know it truly makes a difference. And if you’re not, sharing this or keeping us in your thoughts means more than you know.
Thank you for reading, for caring, and for reminding us that even in the hardest seasons, we are not alone.
With much gratitude,
Liz