
Sean Lum Gone Too Soon
HI Everyone! My name is Chelsea and I am Sean's cousin.
We are raising funds to help cover the funeral expenses following our heartbreaking loss. In addition to honoring Sean's memory with a proper farewell, these funds will also support my aunt during this incredibly difficult time, helping to ease the financial burden as she navigates her life without him. Any contribution, no matter how small, is deeply appreciated and will go directly toward easing both the emotional and any financial strain she is facing.
It is with deep sadness that we announce the unexpected passing of Sean Christopher Garman Lum of Sunnyvale, California, at the age of 39 on September 10, 2025. Born on September 18, 1985, in Guam, Sean was the beloved son of Elaine Sarmiento.
He was a loving son and a source of boundless love and joy to everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. His passing has left an enormous void in the hearts of his family and friends, including those touched by his kindness and warmth.
At the core of Sean’s life was his deep, unshakeable bond with his mother. He was her rock, her constant companion, and her greatest source of comfort. Sean’s love for his mother was immeasurable. He cherished every moment with her and she with him, whether enjoying simple pleasures like shopping together, sharing meals, or just spending quiet time in each other’s company.
Sean shared many unforgettable moments with family, always present at gatherings, celebrating birthdays and holidays, laughing, and retelling stories and adventures. His close bond with family was one of deep affection. These moments were precious and will forever remain in our hearts.
Sean’s spirit was sweet, kind, and always genuine. His sense of humor brought happiness to all and lightness to the hardest days. He loved music and the outdoors, paddleboarding at Lake Tahoe, hiking through the desert, and simply enjoying nature’s beauty. Sean took joy in cooking for his friends, who became fans of his chicken kelaguen, chili, and banana cream pie. He enjoyed playing old video games from his childhood and was a big movie enthusiast, often quoting lines from his favorite movies, with a particular fondness for classic Godzilla films. Sean’s love for these simple joys made him someone you always wanted to be around.
We ask that you remember Sean not for the way his life ended, but for the beautiful way he lived, always loving, always giving, and making those around him feel special. May his love and generosity continue to inspire us all.
*For anyone interested in donating via Zelle, Paypal, etc. Please feel free to email me at [email redacted]
*For those who can and have donated directly, Thank You.
Our family is deeply grateful for the love and support they have received during this very difficult time.
Organizer and beneficiary
Chels Invencion
Organizer
San Leandro, CA
Nenita Dudley
Beneficiary