
Ryan good
Donation protected
OK so what I'm about to post may be very controversial and cause upset to some but it's for me and no one else so I apologise
Where Ryan is buried is run down neglected and not used any more and no one cares since John has been unable to maintain the whole church yard it's got worse and worse we keep Ryan's bit tidy but it's got mole hills rabbit holes ants and even dog muck near it no one looks after the church or the church yard I have spoken to the warden and local mp numerous time just to be fobbed off
I even suggested the community pay back team those who are supervised doing community service and was told NO they would on come back and rob us ..not very Christian like
Any way the reason for the post it breaks my heart to see it in such a mess and I never wanted him buried but due to the circumstances surrounding his death at the time having him cremated didn't sit well with me
We ll after mum passing and asking to have some of her ashes with Ryan I have been doing some work and have been doing some real souk searching as I hate visiting his grave it's disgusting see the pics below
So I applied to have Ryan exhumed and cremated and he will ge being interned with mum on the anniversary of his death I have fijed all the paper work and awarded a certificate to go ahead so this is all in process
Please don't judge or think I have done this lightly I've had numerous conversation with those who matter and they agreed with me
It's certainly not being done on a whim I have wanted to do this even before the church yard was neglected
And mum will also have her final wish
It's been a hard decision emotionally and financially but it's what I want and I feel Ryan can finally be at rest and I will certainly will be more at ease visiting him when he's with mum the church should be ashamed of them selves allowing places to get in to such a state
I contemplated a go fund he page as a few suggested but I feel he's my son and my responsibility
Luv you all and sorry if this upsets anyone because it's the last thing I want to do xxx
Organizer
Sharon Long
Organizer
England