
Skylarr Vincent Weaver
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Hi, as you all know, this is Christina and my son Skylarr Weaver passed away on the morning of September 2, 2023.
I woke him up around 9 am and he sounded fine, he sat up in bed and said he would be up in a minute. So I went to the bathroom and right after I went in there, I heard a loud thud. I ran out to the kitchen to find my son laying on the ground face first moving around, trying to pick him self up in a sitting position. When he sat up, he had blood running down his nose, and there was blood on the wall. I said “Oh said my God honey are you OK? What happened? “ He said “I fell.” He looked really out of it. So I went to go run and get him something to clean him up with and he fell back in a laying down position, so I ran back over to him and he started gurgling and then he urinated himself. At that moment, I knew something was wrong, so I immediately called 911. He was breathing for a minute, and then he stopped breathing I kept rubbing his arm and hair and telling him “Come on honey please start breathing.” EMT’s showed up like two minutes later, they were quick and tried so hard to help him. They were in our living room for like an hour giving him CPR, giving him medicine, using the defibrillator, and nothing was working. After an hour, one of the EMTs came up to me and said they can’t get his heart beating, and that they need to transfer him to the hospital to see if the hospital would be able to help him. They told us not to follow right behind them and to wait a little bit. Just as we were about ready to head to the hospital The ER doctor called me and said “ I’m so sorry to tell you this, but your son passed away. We were not able to get his heart beating again. We tried so hard and I’m so so sorry for your loss.” I felt like my world stopped and I couldn’t breathe. A pain I had never felt in my life. My son Nate’s girlfriend was here to hug me and comfort me and I am so grateful for that .
Skylarr was the kindest , most selfless, amazing human being and he was so loved by so many. He just genuinely cared about people. I don’t know what I would’ve done without him the last few years after my ex husband left. I also have a daughter with an Autism and helped me to take such good care of her. He was such an awesome big brother. I have another son who is just beyond devastated over the loss of his big brother. Who he considered his best friend in the whole world
My son was a hard worker had two jobs and carried a lot on his shoulders. We were getting to the point where he would be able to quit one of his jobs, pay off some debts, and he would be able to start living his life more for him. Although, as sweet and selfless as he was, most likely he would have never be able to do that. He always puts us before him
He was also an amazing musician could sing and play guitar so well and he didn’t realize how good he was
His life was taken way too soon, and I will never understand it, and I will never feel that it was fair.
We will all love and miss him forever, and he will always forever be in our hearts❤️
I’m trying to raise funds so that we can get him cremated and any other expenses that may come from this. Any help is so much appreciated. Even a share is very much appreciated.
Thank you so much in advance and much love to you all❤️
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Christina Adams
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Portland, OR