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Hi,
my mother Roslyn suffered an extremely fast decline in health since mid August 2023 followed by a horrific death in September 2025.
I have been off work due to stress since April 2025 and have been using what savings I had to cover living expenses and her care needs.
although we knew Mum was unwell we never knew just how unwell until her final admission.
Her death was although inevitable, it was not expected to happen so soon.
After 36 admissions over a 18 month period I decided to take a look at things myself and discovered the UTI causing sepsis that they had been treating was actually a necrotising pancreas and her entire digestive system was failing… internal bleeds were not investigated, scan results showing SVD and CSVD were not investigated, diagnosis’ went missing off discharge papers between ED and Ward, organs obscured on scans were not revisited, bogus diagnosis with no supporting evidence were made and her POA,POG, next of kin and only daughter were NOT being listened to.
The fight I had to put in for correct diagnosis should not of been so difficult.
I should not of had to go to the lengths I did to figure it out. But I did. If I could do it with no medical degree- why couldn’t they….
Her death was preventable and she did not deserve to go through the agony she endured not only in death but for the past 42 years.
Digging deeper, her diagnosis of bipolar after childbirth is also highly questionable. She presented 7 weeks post partum after a complicated pregnancy with preeclampsia, hypertension and what blood results seem to interpret- a pancreatic flare, with depression.
She was treated with heavy medication. Discharge papers stated “depression cleared in one day” however a week later she was still on those medications and they claimed her to be “floridly manic”
All things point to post natal depression but psychosis being induced with pharmaceuticals during treatment.
When presented with the evidence I found, her MH team removed all mental health medication from her list and she was free of the “cloud” that had surrounded her for the previous 42 years.
The medication she was treated with is what was creating her mental health problems the entire time in my eyes. Bipolar being a hereditary illness she was the only person in a massive family line with the diagnosis. It does not make sense.
I am still waiting the coroners final report but I have the support of many medical professionals including psychiatrists saying what I discovered very much holds merit.
In the end her body had its own metabolic cycle turning urea into ammonia. The perfect storm had been created within her body. With an ammonia level of 220 she was in a coma for 6 days before her body gave in and she was free of this life.
Mum was always full of kindness, positivity, love, care and generosity. Even being so unwell herself she was constantly thinking of others (even strangers) and ways to make them happy. Singing down the hospital corridors, waving and smiling at everyone and comforting strangers in times of grief.
She deserves to have her story told and justice needs to be served.
i promised mum i would fight for her even after death and i am standing by it.
Lawyers have taken on her case and i strive to have procedural changes made within the medical system to prevent anything like this happening to anyone else.
Since starting this battle I’ve had multiple people come to me with their own concerns about the way they have been handled and treated in the world of medicine.
I have a fire in my belly that is burning bright but I am struggling to survive financially while I await income.
Returning to work right now is not an option because unfortunately my own mental health is suffering with the massive loss of the only person in my life who has shown me what family is and the realisation of how different our lives should have been.
I have all the evidence needed, I have the drive and the desire to make changes happen but my strength is diminishing due to financial commitments and the extra stress of it on my mental health.
If you are able to help me give this one in a million human the justice she so rightfully deserves I will be forever in your debt.
she will be missed by many however she was my absolute world and the only world I’ve ever known is one with her in it to push me through the hard and help me to get back on my feet when life knocked me down.
Mum taught me you don’t need money to make a difference in peoples lives, kindness and positivity will always win. Unfortunately we live in a world that is yet to account for that philosophy.
like Mum, I hate asking for any kind of help like this… i will step out of my comfort zone and do it in honour of her and her legacy of helping others achieve what they desire and get the care they deserve.






