I am reaching out during this difficult time to ask for your help in covering the costs of my mother’s cremation. Fortunately, because my father proudly served in the military, her burial expenses will be of little to no cost. What remains is the cremation itself and the process surrounding it, which we want to handle with the dignity and care she deserves.

My mom was a hard worker who poured her heart into caring for those she loved. She did what she could with what she had, and even after the passing of my father—a loss that forever changed her spirit—she carried on in her own way. She found comfort in her video games and movies, and yes, even at 70 years old she was a proud gamer who loved her physical media collection.

She never wanted a funeral or a somber service—she wanted people to remember her with smiles rather than sadness. In honor of her wishes, I plan to hold a small celebration of her life at a later time, where we can share stories, laughter, and memories.

My mother lived simply, loved deeply, and left behind a legacy of resilience and quiet strength. Helping us cover these final expenses is not about creating something extravagant, but about ensuring she is remembered and cared for in the way she wanted. Any contribution, no matter the size, means more than words can express and helps us give her the cremation she deserves. We did make adjustments based on final quote from mortuary.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you for your kindness, generosity, and support during this time.