I’m not great at asking or accepting help but it’s come to a time in my life that I need to. I was just diagnosed with lymphoma last Friday and I need surgery this week to determine which kind I have and then I need more scans, possible surgeries and likely chemo and radiation. I am overwhelmed mentally and financially and I just really need help. Help of any kind no matter small is going to be a tremendous support to me right now. I was married in September and I just want the chance at a healthy future with Spencer.