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On Thursday January 7, 2021 I received the most heartbreaking call... My aunt had called me explaining to me that I had to go to the hospital ASAP because my dad was very sick and they needed me to make a decision. I was so confused as to what was going on because I had just spoken to him 3 days before, they told me that he went to the emergency room due to severe abdominal pain.. they gave him a CT scan and it turned out it was cancer, he was scheduled for an emergency surgery to remove the cancer but as soon as the doctors opened him up the cancer spread throughout his body in the matter of seconds, he was already very weak and they had no other option then to put him on life support. They called me in to make one of the hardest decisions life can give you... it was to either keep him on life support or take him off.. I asked the nurse if he was in any kind of pain and how much time he had left... and she told me that he didn’t feel not one thing and he had 24 hours to 2 days no more than that.. so I decided to keep on life support and let him go on his own time.. I prayed and prayed for a miracle to happen.. even though all this was going on I still went to work the next day and around 10 am they called me to tell me that my dad had passed away.. I only had 4 years with him and I wish I had more time.. anyone who ever met my dad knew the kind of heart he carried.. One of the sweetest, selfless and humble persons you will ever meet.. he always made sure everyone around him was doing good, even if he was left without nothing And not once did he ever complain about it nor say anything negative about anyone. It saddens me that my daughter and I only had a little time with him But it was the most beautiful experience, I was finally able to say that I had met my father even if it took 18 years, I had him in my life and that was all that mattered to me... It breaks my heart to know that he is still currently in the morgue because I need to find a mortuary and give him a proper memorial service.. so I ask everyone with all of my heart if you can help me and my family with giving my dad a proper goodbye because he deserved it. Anything helps even a share. We would greatly appreciate it. Thank you❤️










