Rest for Alesia Validum

My sister Alesia Validum has passed away Saturday morning(Dec 5th) at the age of 31. She was discovered by our dad on Saturday around 2:30pm at her apartment with her 11 month old son Julius crying inside who is alive and well thank goodness. Her children Alayna(8) and Julius are in our family's custody and we will do everything to ensure they live a happy and healthy life in our care. Her death has devastated our family and everyone who knew and loved her. We have the official cause of death, but no toxicology report as that can take up to 4 months to produce. We were told by the detective on the case that he will not be closing the case anytime soon as he hasn't finished his investigation. My family has also done some investigating, and we have uncovered tremendous information. Alesia will have justice and my family will make sure of it. This GoFundMe will support her funeral costs and the rest will go towards helping her children through this tough time. Thank you for your generosity, no amount is too small, and please keep Alesia and our family in your hearts and prayers in our time of grief. I also want to leave a rough estimate of funeral costs we've gathered from various funeral homes in our area to explain exactly what the money will go towards:
Plot- 6,000
Digging the grave- 2,000
Coffin- 3,000+
Tombstone- 4,000+
Funeral Home Fees- 3,000
Cemetery Fee- 3,000
Again thank you so much, my family and those two angels she left behind will be forever grateful to you.53131318_1607527595622629_r.jpeg


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Shannon Validum 
South Richmond Hill, NY
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