I am asking for help. My father was retired and was living an amazing life on his retirement money (his pension). My parents are divorced so once he passed the money situation became very difficult. Most of my father’s money is either tied up in retirement accounts (401K, IRA, etc.) and cannot be withdrawn by me (the beneficiary) without being heavily taxed. My college account only has enough money to get me through college, which my father would want me to do. His social security and pension incomes are untouchable until a lot of paperwork goes through and when they can be touched, my mother and I need to use them to pay bills as we are only getting a percentage of what he was getting. He did not have life insurance. He did not have a will. We are working on selling his property but we are not sure when it will be able to sell as the property does not allow mortgages to be taken out. We are running out of funds to help us pay for the expenses for services such as cremation, memorial services, his plot at George Washington Memorial Park in New Jersey, traveling expenses for my me to fly to New Jersey to handle all of this, legal services, etc.
We are asking for friends, family, acquaintances, anybody to help us be able to respect and memorialize my father in the best way possible. We will be extremely grateful and thankful for any and all help.
I apologize if this sounds a bit unprofessional or is not written correctly. Right now, I still am trying to wrap my head around the situation and it feels awful that funds are getting in the way of us trying to memorialize and pay respect to my father, an amazing and loving human, my best friend, a smart business man, a caring family man, and a truly wonderful person.
I thank you all so much for everyone’s love and support.
(Daughter of Douglas)
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