hi, i’m venus

and i’m raising funds to help cover the cost of my breast reduction surgery.

this has been a long time coming — years of back pain, dysphoria, migraines, and not being able to exist in my body the way i want to. i’ve fought hard to get insurance to see this as necessary, and despite having medical documentation, i was recently told my coverage likely won’t be approved. it’s devastating, but i’m not giving up.

my surgery is scheduled for march of 2026, and without coverage, the out-of-pocket cost is nearly $8,000.

that’s… a lot of money. more than i can manage alone, especially while working part-time retail and saving up to move out of state to build a life where i can finally feel like myself.

i’m asking for help not because it’s easy, but because it’s necessary.

every dollar, every share, every kind word means the world to me.

this surgery will relieve chronic pain. it will help me feel more at home in my body. it will change my life.

thank you for supporting me — whether it’s with a donation, a repost, or a message. i’m endlessly grateful

—venus

questions you may have:

Q: is this surgery medically necessary?

yes. this is not cosmetic — it’s been recommended by doctors to address chronic back/neck pain, nerve issues, migraines, and body dysphoria that affects my daily quality of life. this isn’t about vanity, it’s about being able to exist comfortably in my body.

Q: why isn’t insurance covering it?

despite having documentation from multiple providers, my insurance has denied or delayed coverage due to “lack of sufficient evidence” (). i’m currently appealing, but have been told it’s very unlikely to go through in time — if at all. i’m moving forward with surgery because continuing to wait is harmful to my health.

Q: what’s the total cost & where is the money going?

the total cost is approximately $8,000, which covers:

– surgical fees

– anesthesia

– hospital costs

– post-op care

– necessary medical garments & supplies

i’m asking for support to help cover these direct costs.

Q: how can i help if i can’t donate?

sharing this fundraiser, reposting on socials, texting it to someone who might donate — it all helps more than you know. truly. support isn’t just about money — i feel every kind word and share.

Q: are you okay?

honestly? i’m exhausted. but hopeful. and deeply grateful. this is vulnerable and scary to post, but it’s also a huge step toward the future i want. so yes. i’m okay. and getting better.