In 2025, addiction nearly took everything from me. It didn’t just affect my finances or my job. It threatened my role as a parent, my connection to my family, and the life I worked so hard to build. I reached a point where I had to face the painful truth that if I didn’t change, I was going to lose far more than I already had.

Almost eight months ago, I chose recovery. I chose sobriety. Every day since has been a commitment to showing up honestly, even when it’s hard. I attend AA meetings, live by the 12 steps, and place my faith in a higher power that continues to guide me when I feel unsure or afraid. Recovery has stripped me down and rebuilt me in ways I never expected.

One of the greatest gifts of this journey has been slowly earning back trust. I have regained visitation with my daughter, something I do not take lightly for a single moment. I now share a healthy, respectful relationship with my ex-wife, centered on what matters most: our child. Being present for my daughter, walking her to school, and being someone she can depend on means everything to me. She is my why.

As my ex-wife prepares to move to the Woodstock area, I need to move as well so I can stay close, continue supporting my family, and remain actively involved in my daughter’s daily life. This move isn’t just about a change of address. It’s about protecting the progress I’ve fought so hard to make and continuing to show up as the parent my daughter deserves.

The reality is that recovery came with a financial cost. Time away from work left me in significant debt, and starting over has been overwhelming. I am doing everything I can, but I can’t do this part alone.

I’m asking for help from my community during this fragile and hopeful chapter of my life. Not because I want to be rescued, but because I am committed to staying sober, staying present, and building a future rooted in honesty, stability, and love. Any support you’re able to give will help me get a foothold as I continue rebuilding my life.

Thank you for reading, for believing in second chances, and for helping me keep moving forward, one sober day at a time.