Hi my name is vicki

i didn’t want to do this but after so many supportive comments on tiktok i was advised to start a go fund me

when i was 29 myself and my husband (at the time ) decided i would get sterilised. we had accepted that we had completed our family. after going thru with the surgery. and accept this was it. i could no longer produce children

i found out a couple of weeks later. he was having an affair and starting a new family

he took away my chances of ever meeting anyone. knowing that i can no longer have my own family moving forward

restricting that by having to explain to any new relationship that i cannot give them kids

i accept that i am also to blame for deciding to do this

making such permanent decisions based on a relationship

and i live with that for the rest of my life

i want my body back

and the only way of reversing this is private health care

which costs alot of money

i dont want any hate for this

and i will remove if this happens

people need to be aware not to make the mistake i have made

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