- J
Hi, my name is summer.
In 2023 my kids were unfortunately taken from my care, I had fought the social workers since 2020 to keep them in my care and proved myself to them. They were actively trying to take my kids from the moment I was pregnant.. I have made so many changes in my life since they came into my life and believe I am a fit mum and that my kids were happy at home where they belong.. I made mistakes in my life growing up but I am a changed person now and always protected my kids and loved and cared for them, they was put up for forced adoption and now the social have found a potential family and it’s my final chance to fight the court case and try get my babies back. It is £300 per hour for my solicitor + court fees, looking at between £3,000 and £5,000 I am doing my best to get the amount myself but I know I have short time to do it so I don’t have many options. Thank you for taking time if you want to know our full story here it is:
in 2018 I was 15 and dealing with a lot of childhood trauma, I coped in ways I know I shouldn’t have.. which ended in me being a addict, I was running away from home and didn’t know how to handle my emotions putting myself in dangerous situations with dangerous people. Unfortunately, this ended up in social workers being involved in my life which I was a child so I understand.
Fast forward 2 years I was 17 in 2020 and found out I was pregnant, I had to inform social workers and from day one I was told they would ‘take my child’ because I was a ‘risk’ due to my past claiming once a addict I am prone to being a addict again, that my mental health isn’t ok because I was SA from a young age so I won’t know how to love my kids which is so far beyond the truth;
I became sober and moved houses away from drama. I turned my life completely around as soon as I saw the positive mark on my pregnancy test.. I finally had a purpose in life which was my son, I had meetings every week fighting to keep him in my care i showed up every time and accepted all the strict rules which was unannounced visits, asking to take my kids away in the UK or anywhere I had to inform them and so much more. I agreed to every thing they asked of me even when it restricted our day to day and took up 90% of our time, they could walk in the house freely when they wanted and check the fridge/freezer anything they wanted to do was complied with .
I got on with my life and still made sure I was doing everything I should while fighting everyday to keep my son, I fell pregnant with my daughter and still was the same with social workers they was insisting still I wasn’t stable although I was sober now for 3 years and they even said my kids are loved and cared for by me.
I had fought every accusation but still meetings became more consistent around my daughters 1st birthday actively trying to find reasons to take the kids I was so sure they couldn’t find a reason because I know I cared for them and loved them they was always looked after and smiling.
In 2023 I had an emergency court hearing 3 times and beat them all, 1st hearing was to try take my kids as I missed a appointment and it was declined but orders were put in place. 2nd hearing was because of ‘anonymous calls to social’ so tried to try take my kids again but social didn’t win this one, 3rd they called a emergency hearing for a nappy rash, even though my daughter had a reaction to what I was using so I switched it and solved the issue.
Thinking that I was okay after the long years of fighting. I had booked a trip to Amsterdam for my birthday for the night and left my kids with their other legal guardian which I could leave them with; was my mother, she was the main person I could leave with my kids. I went for 2 days and come back to an emergency court meeting after I informed them I was going out of uk for the night they used this against me and it was the final court which resulted in them taking my kids from my care their reasons went on for a while and used things in my past against me aswell as saying I went against rules because I left the uk when the rule was that I don’t leave the UK with the kids or without informing anyone where and how long I’ll be which I did.
thank you for taking time to read, I may have missed some details because it’s hard to include everything that has happened in the last 6/7 years, but I have tried to include the main “concerns” and main events im fighting against . Anything that will help me get to my goal will be so appreciated even the smallest things and if you can’t donate please watch my latest TikTok videos summerbxbyy_ for one minute so I can use the money from TikTok towards the goal, I will be working extra hard to get my money up enough for it too but I know it needs to be soon and would be impossible for me to get there alone unfortunately!
Thank you.
- summer x






