Queer Buddhist Parent Escaping Partner Abuse

Hello! I am a queer, Buddhist parent of a twelve-year-old child who has been forced to acknowledge that I am in an abusive partnership, and in need of funds to move before things escalate further. Even when I find a place, I don't have thousands of dollars to put toward expenses associated with securing a place.

My estimated needs are:

First month's rent in my budget: $1,300

Security deposit: $1,300

Pet deposit for one cat and one dog: $700

In the event that I am able to find a cheaper place, any excess funds will be used for school expenses, vet bills, and paying off debt.

I am in disbelief that I am actually needing to do this. I would probably convince myself it wasn't that bad if my therapist and friends weren't telling me that this is reality. I sincerely appreciate any and all help. This feels like a bad dream, and I just want it to be over with.