Top Surgery Fund

Hello friends! My name is Aleksandr Wilde Calvin and there’s something I need to get off my chest… literally.

Over a decade ago I came out publicly as a transgender man and soon after began the process of medical transition. HRT has done absolute wonders for my mental health and I have zero regrets.

Top surgery has always been a goal that I desired to reach but seems unobtainable even still. Poverty, hardship, and a number of life setbacks have kept me from pursuing my dream of reaching my personal freedom in my identity.

Now that I am a father, top surgery has become a much more urgent priority. I have put my needs last for a long time, but I do not want my insecurities to hold me back from the fullness of the life I share with my family. I want my son to know and be proud of me for striving to be my best and most honest self.

The cost of top surgery for me is around $8,000, and the remaining $2,000 is to cover childcare while I am in recovery, plus travel expenses, medicine and accommodations during my surgery and recovery. It would mean the world to me and my family if you could chip in and help. Thank you so much.