post surgery op recovery care help needed

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post surgery op recovery care help needed

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❤Our Story❤

Rogue's top surgery is coming up quickly, and it would mean the world to me if our friends could help us out!
(I will be taking some work off to better take care of them, since they will be unable to care for herself during this difficult recovery process)

Unable to lift more than 5lbs, work will be impossible for up to FOUR weeks!
This fundraiser is to cover at least two weeks of work, but more is always welcome!

I absolutely do NOT want my partner to push themselves during this process, so any help you can send our way will be met with much love and gratitude!

We want to share the journey with all those that support Rogue and our household during this vulnerable time! We can update you all this Friday after Pre-Op!


Medical Details:
Rogue is at risk of medical issues due to the breast size, including breast cancer (diagnosed with heterogeneously dense breasts, making it harder to find masses within the tissue), and also suffering from gender dysphoria that comes with having grown those hefty pillows (causing chronic spinal pain for Rogue).


What your help and funds will go towards:
Rogue won't be able to work for up to four weeks, and will be bedridden for the first two. They are going to need help with getting fed, taking care of the house pets, cleaning around the house, and of course, good friends to help this painful time feel less painful!

We will use the money raised for expenses that would normally be covered by our regular work schedules.
As well as for covering post-operative bandages, pillows, pain management, etc..

Since Rogue planned for the upcoming Fairfield's First Renfair, Midwest Vegfest and their nonprofit WITI's legalization, they are hoping to start working again right away.

I would appreciate you all so much if you could help me in taking care of my sweetheart, and Rogue is looking forward to sharing this big life transformation!

from Rogue:
These past few years have been so rough on my mental health, as I'm sure it was for so many during these hard times. Going through a tragic loss both a year before and then during the pandemic, and then one more person from my past leaving this world post-pandemic.
It's been a lot, and I've been working so hard to catch up since graduating last year.
I am incredibly grateful to have the support system I do, and that Scarlet is taking time off work to help me and for setting this up for me.
I don't have much right now, but I love you all with all my heart!
Friends, family, clients, fans, and other loved ones, thank you for everything you've ever done!

I feel incredibly fortunate to have reached this point in my journey. Thank you for being a part of it!


Here is a piece of a poem I wrote and if you want to support me every month on my poetry ko-fi (like patreon) check out the link! Poetry and Tea


".......Am I the one that taught you this song
Sing for me
All the times you were alone

Did you not face the wrath of
Man
On your face, heart and in the end
Your just the trampling ground of past
Patterns

Doesn’t matter
Patterns didn’t fathom
Your awesome
Came at you for one last hit
In the night
You already blossomed."
(full version on kofi).

with love, (ɔ◔‿◔)ɔ♥
the Rogue poet.

Thank you again, and every little bit of love sent our way, helps us both so much!!!
❤♡❤

Organizer and beneficiary

Scarlet Riddle
Organizer
Fairfield, IA
Rogue Sypersma
Beneficiary
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