Please Help!!! Spinal Surgery /Rehab & Recovery

My name is Terrance , I’m 29. At the age of 11 I was struck by a car crossing the street. The vehicle was driven by an 80 year old  with Alzheimer’s. I died twice from that accident . It also left me paralyzed .Since that day my life has changed. Now I am raising money  to have spinal surgery . The doctor said that my injury over the years is causing my spine to curve. It is at a 60 degree angle once  it hits 80 it will be fatal. Its harming my organs as it collapse. Like the heart and liver.  I could die if I don’t have the procedure. The back pain is unbearable some days I can’t even get out of bed . I also have a complications breathing. I’m raising money for the two necessary surgeries, rehab and & recovery. Also a new wheelchair .  I lost my job  do to the pain That caused me to miss days. I’ve job search no one is hiring me.  My wife is the only one helping through this hard time she works  overtime just to get me to see specialist. I have no health insurance there for I pay for doctor visits with the little that We can scramble  up .I dislike seeing my wife with this burden and stressful situation on her shoulder. I never thought I’d see my life in the hands of others .please help!