Help me find relief from a lifetime of struggles
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(Any donations will be left in my gfm until I have a reasonable amount to withdraw, once withdrawn I will keep them in a savings account specifically for my surgery until I reach my goal)
Hi, my name is Scarlet, and I'm reaching out for support after years of battling with an ongoing issue that has deeply affected my physical and mental well-being.
Since hitting puberty, I’ve been dealing with severe breast asymmetry and sagging, One of my breasts is significantly larger than the other. and they have caused me constant pain and discomfort. It’s not just a physical struggle—it’s impacted my self-esteem, my mental health, and my ability to live a normal life.
I’ve been to the doctors but despite my best efforts to find help, the NHS declined my request for corrective surgery, citing that their procedure wouldn’t address my specific problem. I feel like I’ve hit a dead end. The emotional toll this has taken on me is overwhelming. The imbalance and sagging is not only physically painful but it has also led to anxiety, depression, and an intense fear of being judged or stared at when I go out in public. I’ve become more reclusive, avoiding situations where I might have to show my body, even though I know this is not the way I want to live my life.
This issue has limited my ability to function as a person. It’s a constant reminder of how my body doesn’t match the image I feel comfortable with, and it’s made simple things like going to the gym, socializing with friends, or even shopping for clothes incredibly difficult. I’m tired of feeling trapped by something I can’t change on my own.
That’s why I’m reaching out to you all. I’ve made the decision to fund the surgery that will give me the chance to feel like myself again—to finally be free from the physical and emotional burden that has held me back for so long. The cost of the procedure is more than I can afford on my own, so I’m humbly asking for your help. Any donation, no matter how small, will bring me one step closer to reclaiming my life and my confidence.
I know this is a big ask, but I’ve
exhausted all other options, and this is my last hope.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story and for your kindness and support.
With all my heart,
Scarlet <3
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Scarlet Hardman
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England