I can’t believe the time has come where it’s nearly time for me to say goodbye to my amazing bestfriend of 32 years. Not family by blood but by heart. She’s been everything rolled into one and I’ve been very lucky to have her in my life for so long.

That word cancer that we all hate is about to take her life, in May 2022 she got told she only had months not years left to live, they gave her treatment that luckily helped stopped the cancer from growing but eventually that stopped working and the only option left was chemotherapy.

Pam was already in a place where she was really poorly and had to make a massive decision whether to have it or not. If it worked it would help prolong her life a bit longer but if it didn’t it could make her a lot worse and they would then have to stop the treament and there would be nothing more they could do for her.

Because she doesn’t want to leave this world yet and leave her friends and family and partner behind she chose to have it.

Unfortunately it hasn’t worked and it has sent her into a rapid downhill spiral where she is now fighting for her life.

Anbody who knows her knows how special this lady is, this is my 1 last thing I can do for her to make her happy and let her die in peace knowing everything is going to be ok and taken care of.

I’m wanting to raise some money no matter how big or small to help give her the best send off that her friends and children can give her but I’m also wanting to do this whilst she’s still here so I can show her much she is loved by the people who have had the pleasure of knowing her.

She’s shown and given me nothing but 100% unconditional love in the purest form,total loyalty and complete trust.

A love that will never be replaced.

Through her toughtest times she has somehow managed to keep that hilarious personality and loving heart but that heart is going to fail her soon.

There is going to be a lot of broken hearts left behind