At 1:33AM January 9th Denise Sanchez, my life, my love, the mother of our son Othello was on the unfortunate end of a fatal traffic accident. I (her boyfriend) was the first of family to find out of this tragedy. I had made some phone calls, and with every detail and bit of knowledge gathered I received the phone call nobody wants to receive. It was confirmed that my one and only was no longer with us. The last 5 days we have been flooded with support from friends and family in and out of state as well as out of country. We have come together in such a time to talk and celebrate the things she loved and enjoyed. I’m certain our son hasn’t processed the absence of his mother yet but i have noticed some sort of thought process day in and day out. As I put him to bed the other night I told him I love him and that his momma loves him too, I watched his eyes shift one way and process what had just been said to him. It broke me. We are all broken, yet we continue to move forward. We grieve together, we laugh together, we cry together. Our household has been swarmed with family staying overnight so not a single one of us has to be alone during these days. I know that every single one of us is waiting for her to walk through the front door and bless us with her smile and love.. this fundraiser is strictly for our son, the youngest of this huge extensive family. Other than her siblings and her mother, our son is as much of her as we’ve got left on this earth. My intention with what might be raised is to put into an account that will hopefully build interest over the years and stay locked until he reaches a certain age at which point he will gain access. I thank you for reading and considering. Please, hug your loved ones, today, tomorrow, and every night. For one day you’re  here, and you never know what can happen the next.